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Featured Selection: Stepchildren Speak

Book Notes: Stepchildren Speak: Ten Grown-Up Stepchildren Teach Us How to Build Healthy Stepfamilies
Reviewed by Dawn Miller
If you’ve ever wondered what stepchildren truly think about their experiences growing up in a stepfamily, then you need to check out this book. Author Susan Phillips profiles ten people in their late twenties and early thirties who grew up in stepfamilies. The interviewees describe how it feels to juggle in between households and to navigate homes with different values. This book does not spare any punches – it looks at stepfamilies with honesty – in both their bad and good aspects. In some cases the interviewees describe selfish and even abusive behavior from their guardians. In others they talk about positive relationships with siblings and parental figures, the merits of learning how to accept other people’s differences, and talents they discovered because of the influence of a stepparent. Drawing on their own experiences, the interviewees offer advice to stepparents and stepchildren.
 

Family Rules: Helping Stepfamilies & Single Parents Build Happy Homes

Step by Step-Parenting. A Guide to Successful Living With a Blended Family

Seven Steps To Bonding With Your Stepchild

The Stepparent's Survival Guide

 

Divorce and New Beginnings: A Complete Guide to Recovery, Solo Parenting and Stepfamilies

Living in a Stepfamily Without Getting Stepped On

The Not So Wicked Stepmother, A Book for Children and Adults

Loving Someone Else's Child

 
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The Complete Idiot's Guide to Stepparenting

Book Notes: The Complete Idiot's Guide to Stepparenting
Reviewed by Dawn Miller
I am slightly embarrassed to admit it, but I actually own this book and it's very helpful because it is so down-to-earth. If you are new to stepparenting and only have time or patience to look at one book, this is the one you need. It covers understanding your role as as stepparent, discipline, holidays and visitation. The sections on stepteens and communicating with your stepkids have helpful suggestions, and the section on weddings (what do you do when the kids aren't delighted to hear you are getting married) is practical. Chapters discussing multicultural stepfamilies and gay stepfamilies are something you rarely find in stepfamily books - so it is refreshing to see them here. I especially appreciated the attention paid in this book to the many other people outside the stepfamily who influence it - the ex-spouse, in-laws, and grandparents.

 
The Stepparent's Survival Guide: A Workbook for Creating a Happy Blended Family Winning the Heart of Your Stepchild Wonderful Ways to Be a Stepparent Making the Best of Second Best: A Guide to Positive Stepparenting

 

Stepfamilies: A Multidimensional Perspective A Guide to Family Mergers Daily Reflections for Stepparents: Living and Loving in a New Family Stepparenting Without Guilt
 

Step Wars

Positive Discipline for Your Stepfamily: Nurturing Harmony, Respect and Joy In Your New Family Ex-Etiquette for Parents. Good Behavior After a Divorce or Separation Stepfamily Relationships: Developments, Dynamics and Interventions

 
Do You Really Want to be a Stepparent? Your Stepfamily's Road Map Merging Families: A Step by Step Guide for Blending Families Build a High-Nurturance Stepfamily: A Guide for Co-Parents
 
The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce      
     
 


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