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The Stepfamily Survival Guide
by Natalie Nichols Gillespie

Books You Can Use: The Stepfamily Survival Guide
This well-written book, The Stepfamily Survival Guide, by Natalie Nichols Gillespie is jam-packed with whitty anecdotes and practical advice. The author draws on her own experiences in a stepfamily with five children. Relating to stepchildren and learning how to love even those who don’t want to be loved are strong components of the book. The book offers advice on handling discipline, former spouses and co-parenting. She draws on a Christian perspective and encourages stepparents to be positive and encouraging to stepchildren and take the high road, even with ex-spouses who are belligerent or hostile. Discussion questions at the end of each chapter help stepparents explore their own feelings and reflect on how their own stepfamily operates. She encourages her readers to take a strong introspective gaze into their own thoughts and feelings, leading them to reflect on how they can improve their stepfamily relationships. This is a great book for new stepfamilies just forming and even seasoned stepparents. Buy today

The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family
 

Books You Can Use: The Smart Stepfamily: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family
Ron Deal's book is loaded with great advice.
Placing your marriage as a top-priority is a key tenet with Deal, and he advises stepfamilies to understand that parents and stepparents have different roles to live out. Placing your marriage as a top-priority, is a key tenet with Deal, and he advises stepfamilies to understand that parents and stepparents have different roles to live out and not to force people into old nuclear family roles who are not comfortable in them. The section on common pitfalls has advice on loss and grief, the already looming holidays, family meetings and finances. A chapter with questions posed by real stepfamilies features advice from a variety of family counselors. Buy today or read the rest of our review

Stepchildren Speak: Ten Grown-Up Stepchildren Teach Us How to Build Healthy Stepfamilies

Books You Can Use: Stepchildren Speak
If you’ve ever wondered what stepchildren truly think about their experiences growing up in a stepfamily, then you need to check out Stepchildren Speak: Ten Grown-Up Stepchildren Teach Us How to Build Healthy Stepfamilies. Author Susan Phillips profiles ten people in their late twenties and early thirties who grew up in stepfamilies. The interviewees describe how it feels to juggle in between households and to navigate homes with different values. This book does not spare any punches – it looks at stepfamilies with honesty – in both their bad and good aspects. In some cases the interviewees describe selfish and even abusive behavior from their guardians. In others they talk about positive relationships with siblings and parental figures, the merits of learning how to accept other people’s differences, and talents they discovered because of the influence of a stepparent. Drawing on their own experiences, the interviewees offer advice to stepparents and stepchildren. Buy today

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